Basically you try to maintain 1 - 2 inches of water above the grain bed.
I'm not 100% sure on why you should keep the water above the grain bed raither than draining it
My method of sparging is this: open the tap and collect he wort in a jug, continue untill the wort is below the level of the grain, you may need 2 or 3 jugs.
The grain is now sinking to form a filter bed, and as it packs the wort begins to clear and runs darker the particals being trapped by the grain husks.
I start collecting the wort in the recieving vessel and the jugs of wort are slowly returned to the grain bed.
When all the cloudy wort has been returned to the grain bed I start sparging, balancing the sparge water to the outflow of wort and keeping the liquid just on the level of the grain bed.
If you have 1" - 2" above the grain, the water will take the least line of resistance ie down the sides of the tun, you want all the water to pass through the bed and rinse out the max amount of suger with the least amount of water.