With a meter temperature is important, it is less so with papers. There is about a 0.3 pH unit difference between room temp and mash temp, personally I dip into the mash and then put the strip on a white porcelain tile, generally it cools quick enough to not be an issue as while the strip is wet the colour change is fluid.
The real problem with a pH meter is that the wort at mash temp is a pretty tough environment for a probe, and I have knackered too many probes, having to replace them about every 6-10 brews (at 90 quid a pop

). If you are using a meter always take a sample of the wort and cool it before measuring the pH