Should've argued with him for longer...or at least done the brew night when I wasn't recovering from illness!
To cut a long story short, I've stuck the wheat beer kit in the wrong FV...AFTER I'd put the 20-minute-steeped Fuggles in there. Can't believe I did that.

I've Googled "hopped wheat beer" and it seems that some have won awards, so I'm guessing it MIGHT come out OK, but I'm gutted that it's not going to be what I expected. I'm normally a pretty precise person too, so I'm annoyed with myself.
Any comments, suggestions or reassurance?
A Very Tired Gill x