I've just received a box of 'shiny' items from BES to get my crappy Buffalo tap replaced with something much more manly.
Just playing with the parts, ohh err.. and noticed there's no washers with the tank connector

UPDATED: I found answers on these two on the interwebs...
The question is where to put these.. just on the outside/inside or both? - from searching sounds like it's best on both sides.
I assume those baking sheets are food-safe in boiling wort? - after a fair bit of googling I think yes they are.
The parts I ordered, I'll try and document the build as I know there's a few out there thinking of doing similar.
BES parts I ordered:
7786 - 15 mm x 1/2" COMP x BSP PM, EXT THRD & BACKNUT - £5.82
tank connector, going to attach my 15mm copper drilled filter into this
10397 - 1/2" BSP F, S/S BALLVALVE, 3 PIECE - £12.83
rather sexy tap

14283 - 1/2" BSP TM x BSP F, 90° STREET ELBOW, 316 S/S -£1.50
I'm hoping with PTE tape I can get this fairly locked in facing downwards onto which screws...
14558 - 1/2" BSP TM, HOSE TAIL ADAPTOR, S/S - £2.35
Handy for extra syphon effect
17612 - 15 mm x 1/2" BSP, ADAPTOR, IMPORTED - £0.94
17633 - 15 mm x 1/2" BSP PM, ADAPTOR, IMPORTED - £0.83
These last two are in case I need to extend the hose-tail side with copper, hoping not to need them though.
Total with P&P £35.06